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    December 01

    诸葛亮 - 诫子书

    诸葛亮 - 诫子书
     
     
    夫君子之行,静以修身,俭以养德。
    非淡泊无以明志,非宁静无以致远。
    夫学须静也,才须学也。
    非学无以广才,非志无以成学。
    淫慢则不能励精,险躁则不能冶性。
    年与时驰,意与日去,遂成枯落,多不接世,悲守穷庐,将复何及!
     
    译文:
    德才兼备人的品行,是依靠内心安静精力集中来修养身心的,是依靠俭朴的作风来培养品德的。
    不看轻世俗的名利,就不能明确自己的志向,不是身心宁静就不能实现远大的理想。
    学习必须专心致志,增长才干必须刻苦学习。
    不努力学习就不能增长才智,不明确志向就不能在学习上获得成就。
    追求过度享乐和怠惰散漫就不能振奋精神,轻浮暴躁就不能陶冶性情。
    年华随着光阴流逝,意志随着岁月消磨,最后就像枯枝败叶那样,(成了无所作为的人)对社会没有任何用处,(到那时,)守在破房子里,悲伤叹息,又怎么来得及呢?
     
    Next time my kids must understand this :)
     
     
    November 24

    問劉十九

     
    白居易
     
    綠蟻新醅酒,紅泥小火爐。
    晚來天欲雪,能飲一杯無?
     
    五言絕句
    絕句!
    絕句!
     
    There is new unfiltered wine, let me warm it up with my small red pot.
    Looks like there will be snow tonight, join me for a drink?
    November 20

    If you are not enough without it, You will Never be Enough with it

     
    If you are not enough without it, You will Never be Enough with it.
    Think of this. This sentence stamped the movie of "Cool Runnings".
     
    Life has its weird moment. I watched this movie countless times but this quote only struck me the most recent time I watched it.
    On an RBA flight from HK back to Brunei. Watching a movie in most uncomfortable situations.
    I love Cool Runnings. Let's get this off from the start.
    It fun, warming and most of all, inspirational.
    It brought tears to my eyes even though god knows how many times i have watched it.
     
    But this time after I watched it, it completely dawned on me.
    Yes, it was inspirational on what they have to overcome and achieved along the way.
    But what was truly amazing was the message it delivered in that quote and the ending reflected upon it,
    which I only comprehended now.
     
    Irv: Derice, a gold medal is a wonderful thing. But if you're not enough without one, you'll never be enough with one.
    Derice Bannock: Hey coach, how will I know if I'm enough?
    Irv: When you cross that finish line tomorrow, you'll know.
     
    何謂知足?
    不簡單, 不簡單
     
     
     
     
     
    October 27

    One Hour to Live; One Hour to Love

     
    If you have an hour to live and could make just one phone call;
    1. Who would you call?
    2. What would you say?
    3. Why are you waiting?
    "One hour to live; One hour to love" is short, direct, simple and shook to the core book
    by the late Richard Carlson & wife Kristine Carlson.
    Well worth the read. 
     
     
    October 23

    為什麼人生氣時說話用喊的?

     
    教授問他的學生以下的問題:
    "為什麼人生氣時說話用的?"
     
    其中有一個學生說:
    "因為我們喪失了冷靜, 所以我們會用的"
     
    教授又問:
    "但是為什麼別人就在你旁邊而已, 你還是用喊的,
    難道不能小聲的說嗎? 為什麼總是要用的?"
     
    學生七嘴八舌的說了一堆, 但是沒有一個答案是讓教授滿意的.
     
    教授解釋:
    "當兩個人在生氣的時候,
    心的距離是很的;
    而為了掩蓋當中的距離使對方能夠聽見,
    於是必須用的;
    但是在喊的同時人會更生氣,
    更生氣距離就更遠,
    距離更遠就又要更大聲......"
     
    "而當兩個人相戀時會怎麼樣呢?
    情況剛好相反; 不但不會用的,
    而且說話都很輕聲細語,
    為什麼?"
     
    "因為他們的心很接近,
    心與心之間幾乎沒有距離,
    所以相戀中的兩個人通常是耳語式的說話,
    但是心中的因而更深,
    到後來根本不需要言語,
    只用眼神就可以傳情,
    而那時心與心之間早已經沒有所謂的距離了..."
     
    最後教授作了一個結論:
    "當兩個人爭吵時;
    不要讓心的距離變遠,
    更不要說些讓心距離更遠的話;
    自然的過了幾天,
    等心的距離已經比較沒有那麼遠時,
    再好好的說吧" 
     
     
     
     
     
    October 13

    What is your DEEPEST FEAR?

     
    I remembered this very distinctively in the movie Coach Carter.
    Samuel L Jackson kept hammering this question to this troubled player of his.
    Until one day the realisation came and the student answered his teacher.
     
    Quote by Marianne Williamson
     
    Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
    It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
    We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
    You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world.
    There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
    We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
    And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
    As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
     
    Make a change. Start with the Man in the Mirror.
    Okay its time to play my all time favourite MJ song if only i know who stole my CD
     
    October 03

    月下獨酌

     
    月下獨酌 唐‧李白
     

    花間一壺酒,獨酌無相親。舉杯邀明月,對影成三人。
    月既不解飲,影徒隨我身,暫伴月將影,行樂需及春。
    我歌月徘徊,我舞影零亂,醒時同交歡,醉後各分散。
    永結無情遊,相期邈雲漢

    I have got wine, but I am alone. Hence, I invited the moon, myself and my shadow and three of us drink together.
    The Moon does not participate in drinking, and shadow wil only move to my dance, I console myself, be happy now before the spring suddenly passes you by.
    The Moon hung around for my singing, and shadow dance together with my steps. Party together when awake, however everyone left after we finished drinking.
    I wish to travel with Moon and Shadow forever, even though they may seem cold, and promise to meet at the end of the universe and heaven.

     

    八月十五 但願人長久

    中秋節快樂
     
     
    苏轼 但愿人长久
     
    明月几时有?把酒问青天。
    不知天上宫阙,今夕是何年。
    我欲乘风归去,唯恐琼楼玉宇,高处不胜寒
    起舞弄清影,何似在人间。

    转朱阁,低绮户,照无眠。
    不应有恨,何事长向别时圆?
    人有悲欢离合,月有阴晴圆缺,此事古难全。
    但愿人长久,千里共婵娟
     
    When does the moon began? I raised my glass and ask the sky.
    May I ask the angels living in thousand years old heaven, which year of 中秋 are they now in.
    I want to ride the wind to heaven, but apprehensive of its cold in high altitude.
    Its best I stay here, indulge and dance in the moonlight and shadows.
     
    Moonlights turn to mansion, shining through the window, reflecting on sleepless people.
    Does the moon hates the mankind? Why is it only during sadness and loneliness it shines brighter and appeared rounder?
    Life has people come together and leaving, wish to stay forever together from ancient has always been difficult to achieve.
    Even though we may be far apart, as long as we are safe and healthy, we can still enjoy the moon together.
     
     
    September 04

    How to Love

     
    In his new book, How to Love, Gordon Livingston explains the key to a long-lasting loving relationship is finding a person who possesses most of what he calls the 10 "essential virtues" -
    1. kindness,
    2. optimism,
    3. courage,
    4. loyalty,
    5. tolerance,
    6. flexibility,
    7. beauty,
    8. humour,
    9. honesty and
    10. intelligence
    Wow! Don't you reckon that's a LOT of virtues.
    I myself would be having a hard time possessing all those; So am i destined to not find love?

     

    July 21

    將進酒

    將進酒 (李白)

    君不見
    黃河之水天上來,奔流到海不復回?
    君不見
    高堂明鏡悲白髮,朝如青絲暮成雪? 
    人生得意須盡歡,莫使金樽空對月。
    天生我材必有用,千金散盡還復來。
    烹羊宰牛且為樂,會須一飲三百杯。
    岑夫子,丹丘生,
    將進酒,君莫停。  
    與君歌一曲,請君為我側耳聽。
    鐘鼓饌玉不足貴,但願長醉不願醒。
    古來聖賢皆寂寞,惟有飲者留其名
    陳王昔時宴平樂,鬥酒十千恣歡謔。
    主人何為言少錢,逕須沽取對君酌。
    五花馬,千金裘,
    呼兒將出換美酒,與爾同銷萬古愁!

    好!好!好詩!

    July 20

    勸君一杯君莫辭

     
    白居易
     
    勸酒詩
     
    勸君一杯君莫辭 勸君兩杯君莫疑 勸君三杯君始知
    面上今日老昨日 心中醉時勝醒時
    天地迢迢自長久 白兔赤鳥相趨走
    身後金星掛北斗 不如生前一杯酒
     
    好句; 好句.
     
     
    June 25

    獨行俠 (二)

    獨行俠能替生命留痕;
    可是淚流了只能無痕;
    心碎更不能留下痕漬.
     
    June 20

    喔枝吧啦

    爸爸說: "甚麼是喔枝吧啦, 你知道嗎?"
    我答: "不知道. 連怎樣寫還是一個問題. 意思知道啦. 很多東西參參在一起. 亂亂參. 哈哈哈"
    爸爸說: "喔枝吧啦不就是代數囉!"
    我在想, "甚麼代數喔? 狗屁不通!"
    爸爸說: "代數英文是甚麼?"
    我講: "Algebra 囉"
    "哇嘮! 咁都得!"
     
    想深一點, 他媽的是很有道理叻.
    x + y - a x b / z = 32 還不是喔枝吧啦是甚麼, 你跟我講
     
     
    June 16

    Giving & Waiting

    They say learn to give before you can get anything back.
    But I gave everything i could and more but got nothing but heartache in return.
    Its only then i realised,
    it says you will get something back,
    it does not necessary mean it will be a good thing,
    nor does it specify how long you have to wait for your return.
    So you give, you wait, you give again, you wait again.......................................
     
     
    June 12

    想 ; 走 ; 放

    這星期.
    感覺無奈,傷心.
    一個電話.
    一個P.M.
    不一樣的人.
    情緒起伏不定.
    是我的問題嗎?
    還是大家都想,走,放不開?
     
     
    June 05

    好兄弟

     
    Apology for the photo quality.
    But for some reason i really like this photo.
    It shows a bunch of friends together, having a hell of a time.
    I promise you there is like at least 15 of us. 
    I am not sure why I slowed down behind the group?
    Maybe to appreciate this kind of rare moment when everyone is together before our lives and priorities start to drift us apart.
     
    上刀山 落火海 你仆低我為你去墊底 
    講一聲你喜歡共患難落地獄冇問題
    有今生冇來世 眼濕濕有鼻涕 愛黃金更愛兄弟
     
    June 03

    Watch out for your own destiny

     
    Watch your thoughts, they become WORDS;
    Watch your words, they become ACTIONS;
    Watch your actions, they become HABITS;
    Watch your habits, they become CHARACTERS;
    Watch your characters, for it becomes your DESTINY.
     
    Very true indeed.
    Deep down you might have the kindest heart, but your character will be judged by your habit, actions and words.
     
    April 22

    There is No Paper

     

    出生一張紙 , 開始一輩子
    畢業一張紙 , 奮鬥一輩子
    婚姻一張紙 , 折磨一輩子

    做官一張紙 , 鬥爭一輩子
    金錢一張紙 , 辛苦一輩子
    榮譽一張紙 , 虛名一輩子
    看病一張紙 , 痛苦一輩子
    悼詞一張紙 , 了結一輩子

    淡化這些紙 , 明白一輩子

    忘了這些紙 , 快樂一輩子

     

    One must not have "Paper". There is no "Paper"

    February 04

    愛需要經驗?

     
    愛需要經驗嗎?
    "我比你經歷過更多場戀愛,我比你更懂得如何去戀愛"
    如果是鐵一般的事實, 要怎麼反駁?
     
    即是如此,
    何以多次戀愛, 卻終究分手?
    何以首次談情, 能白頭偕老?
    是不是我不夠戀愛經驗, 所以搞到分手下場?
    還是, 我根本不懂愛.
     
    我是不是太天真?
    為什麼愛也要經驗?
    為什麼愛也要分析?
    為什麼應該很簡單的愛, 卻變得比任何一樣事都複雜?
     
    下次如果想追求男女朋友,
    不妨試試附上你的愛情覆歷表吧,
    如有經驗者,將會獲得優先錄取.
    January 30

    Can You Feel My World

     
    我要怎麼說才好
    當我的情緒低潮
    Can You Feel My World?
    Can You Take My Hand?